I offer massages and cuddle sessions to people who identify as man or have a male body. Gay, bi, straight, not sure yet, queer, cis, trans man, searching, non-binary, gender fluid, and something in between. Everyone is welcome.
This choice is not made out of discrimination towards other people, but out of personal preference, comfort and knowledge.

This depends on your choice. It can vary from a cuddle session of 30 minutes up to a tantra massage of 2 hours. The pretalk and possible after talk will not be counted in your booked time.
You select the length of your session during the booking, where you will have all the possible options.

Also this depends on your booking. A 30 minutes cuddle session will cost 40 euro. When you book the 2 hours tantra massage, the price will be 140 euro.
The prices are clearly mentioned in the booking process.

Click the booking button at the bottom of this page to go the reservation section. You first choose if you want a cuddle session, a relaxation massage or a tantra massage. Then you choose the date and time. At the end, you confirm the booking with your contact data.

You can pay cash, through Wero (previous Payconiq), or through Paypal. What is easiest for you.
Payment is only at the end of the session.

My address is
Tijl Uilenspiegellaan 50
2050 Antwerp, Linkeroever (left bank)
Some ways to reach my place:

On foot or by bike
When you live in Antwerp, or close by, the easiest way to reach me is by bike or on foot. From the city center to the left bank, you can easily cross the river with the ferry at Het Steen, through the St. Anna pedestrian tunnel or the Kennedy bicycle tunnel. You can park your bike safely inside.
There are also a few Velo-stations (bike-sharing system) in the area.

Public transport
From the central busstation (Franklin Rooseveltplaats) there is a direct bus P5 to Linkeroever.
Also coming from Waasland there are several direct buslines.
You best get off at stop "Van Eeden" or "Halewijn". From there on, you can take the local bus 36, it stops just around the corner. Or you can walk 15 minutes to reach my place.
ATTENTION! Starting from May 2026 until April 2027 there are no underground trams between the central train station and P&R Linkeroever. There will be alternative options.
Smart ways to Antwerp

By car
Parking is free and abundantly available in my street. Please keep in mind that for reaching Linkeroever, you often have to pass the Ringway/E17. Take into account that traffic jams are common around the Kennedy tunnel.
Local traffic between the city center and Linkeroever can go through the Waaslandtunnel.

I prepare the room so it will be perfect by the time that you have booked. When you come early it could be that the room is not ready yet.
But sometimes travel goes unexpectedly smooth and you arrive sooner than anticipated. When you're less than 10 minutes early, just ring the doorbell and I'll let you in. The room should be ready. If you're more than 10 minutes early, let me know and we look at the possibilities.
Don't worry, I will not let you stand outside in the cold and rain.

This can happen too. We all spend our time in traffic jams and have our troubles with public transport.
Let me know when you realise you will be later. You'll find my number in the booking confirmation e-mail. But do it safely: no calls and no texting while driving.
Depending on how much later you arrive, and what my planning after your visit looks like, your session may be shortened.

If you have a fever, a cold or another respiratory infection? Then I would appreciate you cancel your booking. Even if it's last minute.
It's difficult to enjoy a massage or a hug when all your attention and energy is going to feeling sick. This way you also prevent the transfer of the infection and me having to cancel other appointments.
When you make a booking for a massage and you have open wounds, a recent medical procedure or a (non-transferable) skin condition, let me know. We can look at the options together. For a cuddle session this is less important, as long as you don't experience any discomfort or pain.

Extensive preparation is not needed. Tthe only important thing is that you arrive at your appointment hygienically and clean. I'll do the same.
I would recommend that you take a shower before you leave home. I also appreciate it if you refrain from wearing heavy perfumes or strong-smelling deodorant.
Maybe don't arrive with an empty stomach for the massage. You will be hungry the whole time. But too full of a stomach is not comfortable either.
For the cuddle sessions you best wear comfortable, loose fitting clothes, like sweatpants. You can change clothing here, if you would like.
But also after a massage, a loose fitting outfit will feel better than a tight jeans.

If you don't have time to take a shower at home, you come straight from work, or you want to rinse of the oil after the massage? Then you can take a shower here.
I'll ask a supplement of 10 euro for a shower.
If you want to take a shower after the massage, ask for it before we start en be aware that this might affect the length of your massage session.

The room where I give massages and cuddles is on the top floor of a 3 story building. For people with reduced mobility it will be difficult to go up the stairs.

You book a relaxation massage of 60 or 90 minutes, or a tantra massage of 90 or 120 minutes, through the online booking page.
Before we start the massage, we take some time for you to arrive not only physically but also mentally. We have a short conversation to get to know each other, if this is your first visit. And I ask about your expectations and wishes. I also explain what you can and cannot expect during the massage.
This conversation will not be counted in the duration of your massage.
When you don't have any questions anymore and I know what I need to know to give you a good massage, you can undress yourself and lay down on the massage table .
After the massage, we can have a short conversation about your experiences.

For a relaxation massage
60 minutes - 60 euro
90 minutes - 80 euro
For a tantra massage
90 minutes - 110 euro
120 minutes - 140 euro
The lenght of the massage you choose yourself and the price is clearly mentioned during the booking process.

I use colorless, odorless, nutral and natural oil. Most of the time it will be almond oil. In case you could be allergic or intolerant to any substances in specific oils, please let me know so I can check with you which oil is best for your body.
For the massage the oil will be heated to a comfortable temperature, so your body will not cool down because of cold oil on your skin.

I only give massages in a dedicated room at my home. I will not give massages at your home or in your hotelroom.
The advantage of this is that I can prepare the room up until perfection for your masage. The room will be heated, an incense stick or essential oils will create a warm atmosphere, the light will be adjusted, towels and sheet are freshly washed. Everything to maximise your massage experience.
I only massage on a massage table that can be heated too. I don't massge on the floor, on a futon or on a bed.

Depending on who you ask, you will get different answers. The concept of tantra is so widespread that it's difficult to give a short summary.
You'll find the origins in tantra in Eastern traditions. There the focus is on spiritual growth, connection, energy and self-development.
In Western society tantra is strongly associated with sexual experience. But it is certainly not limited to that.
With my massage, I will try to make you concious of and in your own body. I will do this, among other techniques, with soft, intentional touch that will set in motion the energy in your body. There will be parts where I work with sexual energy, but it's not the main focus of the massage.

The relaxation massage that I give, is composed out of different massage techniques that I learned and combined into a flow that feels right for me. As I keep continuing following courses, new elements may appear over time. But the basics of the massage remains quite stable and finds its origin in a Swedish massage with long, deliberate moves on the big muscle groups. The massage will be given on a massage table.
The tantra massage will also be given on a table. In that way, the basis looks and feels a bit the same as the relaxation massage. But there are some significant differences.
The tantra massage plays with variations in sensation, rhythm and presure. One moment the touch can be soft as a feather, the other moment will be a firm muscle massage.
Another very important element for the tantra massage, is the energy and connection. Through different moves and contact with my hands, arms, upper body, we get more and more connected toe each other, which creates an energetic experience. To facilitate this connection, you can choose for the option that I will be naked during the massage. That energetic connection may sound a little abstract, but the best way to understand is to experience it.
And the biggest difference between my relaxation massage and tantra massage, is that with tantra there will also be a lingam (penis) massage. This is not the main focus of the massage, but it's part of it. This way we can play with sexual energy that can flow through the body.
Whether you choose relaxation or tantra, no two massages are the same. Before the massage I will check with you where you want to have the focus, what you like, what you don't like, and what are your wishes for the massage. But even if you would ask for the same massage as last time, there will always be small differences so a massage never becomes routine.

Although it's perfectly possible to give a massage while you are clothed, I will ask you to undress for your massage.
If you are not familiar or you're unconfortable with being naked in the presence of another person, you can choose to keep your underwear on for the relaxation massage. I will cover it with a towel, so there will be no oil stains.
For the tantra massage you are completely naked. Clothing would interupt the flow and the energy of the massage.
The room will be heated, you won't be cold. But if you prefer, I can cover the part of your body that is not being massaged with a towel or a sarong.

During a relaxation massage I will stay clothed. There is no added value for the quality of the massage when I would be naked. There should be no discussion or negotiation about this.
When you book the tantra massage, you will have the choice for me to be naked or clothed. We will discuss this option during the pretalk. The advantage of me being naked will be that our body contact will be more intense and we can create a strong connection together. This will result in a better experience for you.

We all struggle a little with unconditional acceptance, especially when what we receive makes us feel good. We kind of feel obligated to give something of equal value in return.
With a massage you don't have to "give back". You are allowed to receive the massage. You have the right to enjoy it. The most important goal of a massage is to relax. Actively moving your body to give back, will get in the way of that relaxation.
With tantra massage, I will allow you to touch me under certain conditions. When the touch has the intention to create a stronger connection between us, that is okay. Those touches are caring and respectful and in no circumstance they have the intention to take or to give back pleasure. But also during the tantra massage I invite you to relax, to feel, to undergo, to experience.

When you choose the relaxation massage, the lingam (penis) will not be touched actively.
If you book the tantra massage, a lingam massage is part of the massage. Unless you choose not to. We will talk about that option in the pretalk.
I do not offer an internal prostate massage.

I'm not an escort. I will not offer paid sexual services. A "happy end", or reaching an orgasm, is not a part of the massage. During the relaxation massage the lingam (penis) will not be actively touched or massaged.
One element of the tantra massage is working with sexual energy and lingam massage will be incorporated as a part of the experience. It could happen that you experience an orgasm during this massage. And that is perfectly fine. But it is not the ultimate goal of the massage. It could also be that you don't reach an orgasm. Expiriencing sexual pleasure without an orgasm will augment your energy.

Just because: it feels good.
We don't all have a partner, a good friend or a family member to spontaneously cuddle with. When you don't have a person like that around you, the need for touch can be high.
For some people, the step to getting a massage is too big: you literally have to expose yourself and you literally put control in the hands of the masseur.
With a cuddle session, you are always in control. You keep your clothes on and you let me know what you feel good about, what you find comfortable. A good cuddle will give you the same relaxation as a massage.
Cuddling only has advantages.

On the booking page you make a reservation for a cuddle session going from 30 minutes up to maximum 2 hours.
Before we start the cuddle, we take some time for you to arrive not only physically but also mentally. We have a short conversation to get to know each other, if this is your first visit. And I ask about your intentions and wishes. I also explain what you can and cannot expect during the session.
This conversation will not be counted in the duration of your session.
If you're not quite comfortable yet, we can start with some exercises to get closer to each other and some short hugs. From then on, it's entirely up to you. You decide how the session goes.
Afterwards we can have a short conversation about your experiences.

A cuddle session of 30 minutes costs 40 euro.
For each additional half hour, the price will be 20 euro, with a maximum duration of 2 hours or 100 euro.
You select the duration of the session during your reservation.
If, during the session, you notice this is not for you, or maybe it's not the right time, or you had enough cuddles (if such thing is possible), then we stop the session. You only pay for the time that we actually cuddled.

The cuddle sessions will be in a dedicated room at my home. This has the advantage that I can prepare the room up until perfection before you arrive. he room will be heated, an incense stick or essential oils will create a warm atmosphere, the light will be adjusted. Everything to maximise your experience.
There is a comfortable couch, where we can cuddle while sitting. The couch can be turned into a bed, when you prefer laying down. There are clean sheets and pillows to make ourselves comfortable.
I've consciously chosen not to come to your home. This way, you also physically distance yourself from the things that keep you occupied. You can forget about them for a while and leave them behind during the cuddle.

Hugs and cuddles, in all shapes and sizes.
How you want to fill that in is entirely up to you.You decide how we cuddle: standing up, sitting down, spooning, laying down with one arm around your shoulders, ... You want to hold me? Or you want to be held? A lot is possible.
There are only a few conditions: we both keep our clothes on, bodyparts that are usualy covered by underwear in daily life are not touched, a touch can not have the intention to create sexual arrousal and we both have to be comfortable with the cuddle positions.
Within those conditions, we can change positions as often or as little as you want.

That is also something that you decide. Do you want to be quiet? Do you want to talk? Do you want to tell what happened to you today, or what is bothering you? Are you so relaxed that you fall asleep? All valid options.
I don't have any psychological training and the session is not psychotherapy, but I'm a good listener without judging.
When you cuddle, your body will start to produce all kinds of hormones and will process some things. It could be that emotions will rise up, both positive and negative.Those emotions also have a place and are allowed to be there. You can name them, place them, interpret them, or simply let them happen.
This is your moment.

Yes, for the cuddle session we are both fully dressed. We don't touch each other under the clothing and on bare skin, except for arms or maybe the face.
Comfortable clothing is recommended. Cuddling in sweat pants feels much more comfortable than in tight jeans.
If you want you can change clothes before and after the session.

I'm not an escort. I will not offer paid sexual services. A hug is a hug, and nothing more. It is not forplay or an inducement to sexual activities.
Cuddling feels good. And in addition, your body produces different hormones when you cuddle. It could be that you get arroused. But that doesn't have to be a reason to take the step towards having seks. Experience the feeling as part of the cuddle experience, without taking any action. If it becomes too much for you, we can always end the cuddle session.