Tantra still occasionally faces the common prejudice in our society: "It's all about sex, isn't it?"
I have to disappoint you, that's not entirely true.
Tantra is primarily about consciousness, awareness and connection. Connection with yourself, connection with your body, connection with others.

Take a break and enjoy light, slow, and loving touches, alternating with firm massage strokes that relax the muscles. Every inch of your body is massaged, allowing you to surrender to the tender moment. Lingam (penis) massage can be part of this, but it's not necessary.
Feel the energy flowing through your body and the stress melting away. An atmosphere of trust, safety, and openness allows you to fully surrender to that feeling.

During the tantra massage, I use several techniques to help you relax, but I largely follow my intuition and your body. Before we begin the massage, we'll discuss what's possible and what's not, what you enjoy, and what your expectations are.
A tantra massage has no goal other than the massage itself. However, it's possible that things in your body will change, emotions will surface, and you may experience (new) sensations. I invite you to be open to what lies ahead.

Connection is key, that is why you'll be, just like the masseur, naked during the massage. If you wish to build this connection before the massage begins, the masseur can help you remove your clothing in a respectful manner. 

To maintain and strengthen the connection, you can touch the masseur during the massage. These touches, just like the way the masseur touches you, are always caring and respectful. There should never be an intention to take or give. At the same time, I also ask you to be aware of your actions and your body. I invite you to relax, to feel, to experience, and to live from the body, not the mind.

This massage is very sensual, and we work together with sexual energy. Lingam massage can also be part of the experience. Therefore, it's not inconceivable that you might reach orgasm during the massage. If so, that's perfectly fine. However, it's not the goal of the massage. By experiencing sexual pleasure without reaching orgasm, you also strengthen your life energy.

Despite the sexual energy, this massage is not intended as an opportunity for sex. I am not an escort and I do not provide paid sexual services. There is no oral or anal penetration during the massage, and there is no masturbation of any kind.